Time Marches On

Was back home (Ohio) last week to see my Dad. 88 and recovering from major surgery to deal with some circulatory issues.
It's very difficult to watch somebody who has been the person you've looked up to and the anchor of the family all these years struggling and in so much pain.
Certainly not an uncommon situation for us middle baby boomers, though.
The 5 of us have been able to keep it pretty lighthearted, and I think he appreciates that. But not as much as a good homecooked meal - after 50 days in the hospital!!
Most distressing part of the visit? Five middle aged siblings and spouses sitting around talking about our freakin' ailments, medications and benefits - or lack thereof!! Now THAT was distressing!